Blog Site Move

If you are keeping up–which I hope you are!–you know that I have been in the process of moving my current wordpress blog to a more user friendly (so I’m told) blogger blog. How is that for a tongue-twister! I have decided with the new move, that a new title (and of course new url address) is necessary. And if you know me AT ALL, you will completely understand the new title. However, should you not..please find your way over to the “Are You A REAL Lady?” page for answers. I kill myself with amusement because of this! Hehe.

Without further ado…I bring you: www.ChroniclesOfLadyJ.blogspot.com

I am still trying to decide on the theme and colors and what not, but it is up and working. I might surprise myself and attempt designing the whole thing myself. But that will take some time. In the mean time..you will have to adjust to the transfer of images (and odd inscriptions of “caption”) because I don’t want to take the time to go through every picture and delete/change how they appear.

 

Keep on, Keeping on

Another month, another no.

The rise of emotions mixed with anticipation and the fall drowning in disappointment every month is beginning to weigh on me. It’s hard to stay balanced with such a roller coaster ride of emotions. I have plenty of moments of “why not me?” when I’m surged with news of friends being pregnant, baby announcements in the mail, birthday party for kids, redecorating to make room for not the first, but another child, books about motherhood being advertised in my social media..the list goes on and on and always in my face. At least that is how it feels at times. Don’t get me wrong, I’m thrilled for them all and dance with excitement and anticipating for their new arrival, but I also feel the grief of “lack” or “loss” or whatever you want to call it. I struggle with being okay with getting another year older, an added risk for concerns, feeling that I won’t be able to have what I desire more than anything right now.

But in my moments of clear-er discernment, I am reminded of a few things:
-“Comparison is the thief of joy!”
-“God hears our requests. But His answer isn’t always what we’d like it to be because He knows more about life than we do.”-thanks Max Lucado.
-You know better, Lord.

“You’d think I’d know by now
Who’s running the show
And what really matters.
But I keep picking a fight.
With “letting go”
And keep getting hammered

It’s a knock down.
Drag out.
Oh and I am face down.
For the count.
And I’m reminded.
I’m not the one in control.

I know You know better so
Why don’t I go whenever
You say come follow wherever You lead.
So won’t You help me

Would You wake me up
And make me aware
Of what You are doing.
And from my point of view
It’s not very clear
Where this is going

But it’s Your call.
Help me understand.
It’s not how I fall.
But where I land.
So I’m reminded
I’m not the one in control.

Whatever You have in store.
Whatever I am in for.
I want to trust You more and more and more…

I know You know better…” by Mercy Me

So here I am. Fighting to stay hopeful for another month, and a different answer.

Cooking Decorating

L & I had a late-r Christmas with his family. They are great that way. We don’t have to really worry about trying to make both sides of our family happy by spending time with them both on every holiday. They are both close, but sometimes it’s great to just go early or later and spend as much time as we want celebrating.

So, because of our trip to Charleston, we went up to celebrate a few weekends ago. We had so much fun! We got to have yummy yummy BBQ with L’s parents and Grandpa Augie. Marc treated L & I to the world’s best cream soda–Dublin Dr Pepper’s Cream Soda. HELLO! L & I have decided we are going to make a trip to Dublin, TX just to try all the flavors. It was such a delicious treat! I took my sweet time drinking it..and luckily L didn’t steal any of mine 😉

We went up to G. Augie’s place and got to meet Mr. Carter (poor guy had fallen and had a nasty cut and bruise on his face) and a few of the nice people where he lives. I love how excited G. Augie gets about Bingo. No matter what is going on, he wants to make sure he is back in time to help set up the tables, pick his “lucky” cards, and play to win! And he usually wins big! I’m so glad he is enjoying himself!

Then, Cheri made us some tasty cream cheese sugar cookies! I got the recipe so my husband can enjoy them anytime he wants 🙂 We had all kinds of shapes and lots of sprinkle/toppings to choose from. I helped her make some icing and color them. I didn’t add enough food coloring, so the icing came out in pastels…we just went with it! It was a lot of fun for the four of us to sit down and ice/decorate cookies! We had the most fun trying to figure out what Marc was writing on the last cookie. I’m laughing just thinking about it! Good times indeed.

I think it’s time we go see them again..I already miss hanging out! But since they have company this weekend, I guess we’ll try to finish painting the trim..boo!

If you haven’t tried one of these..you are seriously missing out!

Cream Soda

Cream Soda

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Up and Running Again

Now that I FINALLY have MY car back (I’ve been without one while L’s truck has been in the shop)…I had quite the list of to-do’s today. And surprising, even with not having said car Again this morning (truck wouldn’t start, L took mine to work), I got it all accomplished.

I’m looking forward to starting a new Bible study with the ladies. We are doing “Me, Myself, and Lies” by Jennifer Rothschild. I think it will be a good one.

Historic Charleston

We might have taken our sweet time in planning out our vacation to Charleston, but you would not have known based on all we were able to see and do in the short time we were there. I’ve never been the kind that likes to show up to a place and figure out what to do once we are there. I like to have a plan, a schedule to ensure I see everything I want or can possibly fit in. Luckily, I’m pretty sure L is the same way. Our honeymoon was not a relax on the beach trip. It was a we have 7 days in London and Paris…GO! kind of trip. And I wouldn’t have had it any other way. Well, maybe I would have liked to stay in London a few more days…but I always want to stay in London in a few more days…to the point I wouldn’t mind living there for part of the year!

So here is what our itinerary looked like:

“Thursday-

Arrive at 12:40
Leave airport at 1:30-2:00 (lunch?)
Hotel Check in 4:00pm (Drop off bags at front desk if not ready for room)
Historic Old City Market (Open till 6pm)
Shop at the boutiques on King Street (antiques, etc)
Dinner in Historic District
-Hyman’s (215 Meeting Street)-Intersection of Market & close to Pickney (seafood)
Walk the Walled City (starts around Cumberland street)
Holiday Festival of Lights – 5:30-10:00pm

—We were delayed 3 hours getting into Charleston, so we were able to check in right away at our hotel..and luckily we weren’t very impressed with the City Market, so we just swiftly walked through. We moved the shopping on King Street to Monday (even though we really just window browsed).

Friday-

Carriage ride (Tour of historic district) 1 hour; be there at 9 AM
Calhoun mansion – 11am (really Williamson family, site of scenes from the movie The Notebook)
The Battery – walk around
Lunch-
1. East Bay Deli.net (334-H East Bay Street)
Docks Street Theater – self guided tour
Huguenot Church
Heyward Washington – (10-5pm – last tour at 4:30pm)
Edmondston-Alston House – (10 – 4:30pm)
Nathaniel Russell – (10-5pm)
Dinner-
1. Husk restaurant.com (76 Queen St)
2. 82 Queen.com (82 Queen Street)

–It was quite chilly in the morning on our carriage ride, but we had a very informative guide who really gave us some neat history. I was excited to get off and go back to some of the places we had seen for pictures! We were lucky to have hit each of the house tours perfectly, so we didn’t have more than a 10 minute wait and thus, we were able to see all the ones we wanted in one day! I usually have a few options for meals and we found out on our carriage ride tour that Husk was the #1 best restaurant in America right now. So afterwards, I tried to call to make a reservation for lunch or dinner (any time we were in town)..and they were of course..FULL! That’s ok. We tried 82 Queen and absolutely LOVED it! So much so, that we went back our last night! Due to construction work, we were not able to go into the church. They did tell us we could come on Sunday when it would be open for worship (we did come back Sunday, but we did so after the service was held and again we could not get in..dang!) Unfortunately, because most of the homes now belong to a preservation society (and truthfully, I’d much rather they be RESTORED than preserved) we were not allowed to take pictures in many of the homes. It’s a shame, too. So much history and beautify in them! My favorite was the Calhoun house..partly because of the history, but also because of the beautiful, beautiful craftsmanship of the wood! Pocket doors weighing 200 lbs that you could push or pull with 1 finger..wood floors so well designed that no reinforcement is needed for a 500 lb statue sitting on top of it. Now if only the current owner would remove some of his private antique collection so I could see more of the house instead of his “stuff”…wishful thinking 😉 Because this house is privately owned, the owner was actually home during our tour. I wish I had bought a book that had pictures of this place..truly beautiful.

Saturday– Rainy

Breakfast-eat out? Hominy Grill.com (best bkst in town) ~  (207 Rutledge Avenue)
Magnolia plantation – (Plantation and gardens)
Lunch-The Sunflower Café.net (about 4.5 miles from Magnoila, 8 miles from Middleton) on the way to Magnolia (2366 Ashley River Road)
Middleton place and Drayton Hall
Dinner-
1. Home Team BBQ.com (1205 Ashley River Road—back towards Charleston) ~
2. Early Bird Diner.com (1644 Savannah Hwy) ~ (on DDD)

It was nice having a rental car so we could easily go see the plantations. The Magnolia is known for it’s gardens. They were very pretty, but nothing at all like the beautiful gardens of Versailles. I liked Drayton Hall best, as far as the architecture of the home and what remained. Again, they are only preserving what is left, not restoring to original time period. Thus, we can’t touch anything and there is no furniture inside the house. Bummer! We ate at the Early Bird Diner, as I am a fan of Diners Drive-Ins and Dives and this was listed as one of the stops in Charleston. It did not disappointed. And because there is not much to do after government/historic society owned buildings close at 5 pm, we decided to see a movie. The movie you ask?…Lincoln. So apt for our trip in historic Charleston where the first shots of the civil war were fired from on Fort Sumter! Good movie! Go see it. And we lucked out..it was not rainy, just cold and windy. But I had my rain boots on just in case 😉

Sunday-

Fort Sumter tour – harbor cruise and fort tour National Monument (3 hours)
Lunch-in town or at beach?
Morris Island Lighthouse?
Charles Towne Landing State Historic Site
Dinner-82 Queen (again!)

-Again it was a little chilly on the boat, but it was neat to see such an important part of our history. It’s hard to imagine what it looked like back then. I know L enjoyed this part of our trip! Afterwards, we decided to head to Folly Beach and lunch there. After walking out to see the lighthouse, we headed to just about the only restaurant in town and not surprising, it did not disappoint with the food! Yummy! Then we spent a little time walking the beach. I believe L brought home some seashells, too! We had a few hours to kill before our reservation for dinner, so what did we do..we went back to the hotel for a much needed nap!

Monday-

be at airport by 8 AM? Or earlier to drop off car?”

So all in all, we stuck to our schedule quite well. And the food was absolutely incredible! We did not have one bad meal the entire trip. We even had a few hot chocolates to warm us up. One day while we were killing some time, we found a Piggly Wiggly. Yes you read that correctly! Piggly Wiggly. I didn’t realize these still existed. I have always wanted to go in one since I saw Sweet Home Alabama..Reese just makes you want to be a part of the small town life! So I was delighted to find one (and they are still up and running in the deep south!–I’d love one here) and go in one. We also grabbed a few things from another local grocery store to munch on at the hotel..a Harris Teeter. Funny name, but quite clean and the food looked great. Much better than here…can you tell I don’t like our selection of grocery stores in my town!-HA.

We had a really great time on our vacation seeing historic Charleston. We didn’t see Blake or Ryan (dang it) but we did see some awesome old homes! It was harder than I thought to leave Emmie for 5 days and 5 nights, but she sure did have a blast with Grandma and Grandpa, Holly and BitBit! She may not have slept through the night, she may have peed on the rug, and she most certainly wore my parents out, but she was a happy dog while we were gone and that meant the world to me! So thanks to my mom and dad for taking on a third dog and letting her be part of their family for a few days!

Here are some of the pictures from our time in Charleston:

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Historic City Market Entrance

Historic City Market Entrance

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I sat here, too!

I sat here, too!

Me at the Historic City Markets

Me at the Historic City Markets

Everything was still decorated beautifully for Christmas

Everything was still decorated beautifully for Christmas

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They had horses and donkeys for our carriage ride

They had horses and donkeys for our carriage ride

The city uses this old bingo machine to decide which district each carriage will go down so that the same streets and route are not heavily use and populated by carriages. We got district 2, as seen by the red ball!

The city uses this old bingo machine to decide which district each carriage will go down so that the same streets and route are not heavily use and populated by carriages. We got district 2, as seen by the red ball!

I love the greenery growing on the buildings!

I love the greenery growing on the buildings!

The architecture is amazing

The architecture is amazing

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I loved the architecture of this church

I loved the architecture of this church

Original road. These stones were used to weigh the ships down to help them dock or something and once ashore, they were thrown over and discarded by the English. The Charlestonians used them to pave their streets. Once England got wind of this, they began taxing the Charlestonians for these stones because they were now considered "building materials."

Original road. These stones were used to weigh the ships down to help them dock or something and once ashore, they were thrown over and discarded by the English. The Charlestonians used them to pave their streets. Once England got wind of this, they began taxing the Charlestonians for these stones because they were now considered “building materials.”

Note the ropes on the wire fencing. Informs people that the owner is in shipping.

Note the ropes on the wire fencing. Informs people that the owner is in shipping.

L on the original road of Charleston

L on the original road of Charleston

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Note the original brick, covered over with plaster and painted. Love that you can still see the history!

Note the original brick, covered over with plaster and painted. Love that you can still see the history!

The next several pictures are of the exterior and entry of the Calhoun Mansion. If you were a guest, you would enter through the beautiful double doors. If there on business with the man of the house, you entered through a plan door to the right that led to the study only. You knew your place in society and where you were permitted to enter based on how decorative/expensive the room was.

The next several pictures are of the exterior and entry of the Calhoun Mansion. If you were a guest, you would enter through the beautiful double doors. If there on business with the man of the house, you entered through a plan door to the right that led to the study only. You knew your place in society and where you were permitted to enter based on how decorative/expensive the room was.

This house was meant to show on-lookers how wealthy he was. If you were in shipping, you had rope detail around your front door-as a signal for others. This man, Mr. Williamson was extremely wealthy in the shipping industry and had roping around every door and window.

This house was meant to show on-lookers how wealthy he was. If you were in shipping, you had rope detail around your front door-as a signal for others. This man, Mr. Williamson was extremely wealthy in the shipping industry and had roping around every door and window.

If you were considered a "guest," you would enter the house through these doors.

If you were considered a “guest,” you would enter the house through these doors.

Note the roping/shipping industry detail

Note the roping/shipping industry detail

They built porches to make use of the south/west winds as a means of natural air conditioning. I just think they are beautifully designed

They built porches to make use of the south/west winds as a means of natural air conditioning. I just think they are beautifully designed

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The detail in the homes is just stunning. I wish we built homes like this these days.

The detail in the homes is just stunning. I wish we built homes like this these days.

Again the original brick with the new plaster on top

Again the original brick with the new plaster on top

The furniture quality was impecable

The furniture quality was impeccable

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Note the red cord-acted as a system of notifying the slaves which room they were needed in. Remind anyone of Downton Abbey?!

Note the red cord-acted as a system of notifying the slaves which room they were needed in. Remind anyone of Downton Abbey?!

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No pictures were allowed inside

No pictures were allowed inside

The outside

The outside

Now for the historic plantations. I want to go see more southern plantations in other states. I’m hoping they have as much or better architectural character! I’m kinda addicted to big, expensive, detailed homes! –at least looking at them 🙂

The beautiful gardens of the Middleton Place plantation

The beautiful gardens of the Middleton Place plantation

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My handsome hubby taking in the scenery

My handsome hubby taking in the scenery

They buried this statue under the marshes/lake during the civil war so the Union troops couldn't loot it. So glad they did-she's a beauty

They buried this statue under the marshes/lake during the civil war so the Union troops couldn’t loot it. So glad they did-she’s a beauty

Huge oak trees in South Carolina

Huge oak trees in South Carolina

I said HUGE right?!

I said HUGE right?!

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The exterior of what remains. There use to be a bigger house where the family lived and an east and west side wing (unattached), but the Union troops burned down all the plantations they came across and this was all that remained.

The exterior of what remains. There use to be a bigger house where the family lived and an east and west side wing (unattached), but the Union troops burned down all the plantations they came across and this was all that remained.

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While we were waiting for our tour of the house to begin, I stumbled upon this beauty!

While we were waiting for our tour of the house to begin, I stumbled upon this beauty!

..and I made him my friend :)

..and I made him my friend 🙂

The Middleton Place Chapel still stood and we were able to go inside. It was neat to see that anyone could worship here..black, white, slave, non-slave.

The Middleton Place Chapel still stood and we were able to go inside. It was neat to see that anyone could worship here..black, white, slave, non-slave.

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How would you like to take this out for a spin? So neat that they have a few to show

How would you like to take this out for a spin? So neat that they have a few to show

Note the British influence...their flag symbol can be seen in how the paths come together

Note the British influence…their flag symbol can be seen in how the paths come together

stables

stables

On to another plantation…Drayton Hall. My absolute favorite..you’ll see why:

Several different styles of architecture can be seen in the front of the house.

Several different styles of architecture can be seen in the front of the house.

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L popping out of the water well!

L popping out of the water well! Clearly we had some time to kill 🙂

Me at the back of the house, in the slave quarters

Me at the back of the house, in the slave quarters

Front drive view..not too shabby!

Front drive view..not too shabby!

The view from the back entrance (yes they could arrive by land or sea, so there were 2 formal entrances)

The view from the back entrance (yes they could arrive by land or sea, so there were 2 formal entrances)

The original Drayton Hall before it was destroyed

The original Drayton Hall before it was destroyed

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They built "fake" doors with brick behind them for symmetry

They built “fake” doors with brick behind them for symmetry

Where they kept record of their children's heights

Where they kept record of their children’s heights

slave stairwell..so they would not be heard or seen

slave stairwell..so they would not be heard or seen

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Their double sided stairwell was one of my favorite things about the Hall

Their double sided stairwell was one of my favorite things about the Hall

I think it’s easy to see why this is my favorite. Such attention to detail.

Here are the pictures from our river taxi and time at Fort Sumter-where the first shots were fired by the Confederates..signaling the start of the civil war.

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And that’s all folks!

 

 

Christmas Day

L & I decided to take a trip this year and it would be our Christmas gifts to each other. But in true fashion, I can’t have a Christmas without presents under the tree. So we bought little things for each other..but they were fun and great gifts that we otherwise wouldn’t have done. And it’s not about the gifts, but the giving…and for me, also the wrapping of presents in pretty paper! I know, I know.

So a few days before Christmas we slowly started opening our presents to each other. So come Christmas day, we really only had what “Santa” brought…which was no surprise to me! We had planned on having my parents over for Christmas lunch, but my dad was sick with a cold (and he doesn’t get sick often, but when he does..they are doosies). So it was only the 3 of us this year. L’s parents had Christmas with Grandpa Augie and their neighbor. We will celebrate more with them soon! So Mom and I planned out the menu and made it relatively simple. And we still had leftovers. We ate and visited for several hours.

And that was Christmas. No pictures of the day that I can recall. I can’t tell you specifically why, but Christmas was just blah to me this year. I was not excited about it one bit and not in the spirit most of the month.

But we couldn’t stay “blah” for long..L & I had a trip coming 🙂 And we had to leave our precious Emmie for several days and nights-a first for us all!